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February was American Heart Awareness Month

Tuesday, February 28, 2023 | By: MCK Captures

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Approximately 1 in 100 babies are born with a congenital heart defect (CHD), making CHDs the most common birth defect in babies. 

Approximately 1 in 100 babies are born with a congenital heart defect (CHD), making CHDs the most common birth defect in babies. 

In honor of Heart Awarenes Month, I wanted to share my own  CHD journey in the hopes that it brings awareness and community for anyone else that has a heart warrior.


This is Phoebe. My heart warrior.

Baby 10 Month Milestone Photo

Phoebe's 10 Month Milestone

Such a big girl under a swaddle blanket!

Phoebe's 10 Month Milestone photo

Before her heart surgery.

Phoebe at 18 months old only 7 months after her heart surgery.

She is doing so well and is so happy. If she didn't have the scar you would never know anything was wrong.

Phoebe at 18months old, only 7 months after her heart surgery.

She has healed so well. Her scar is very minimal and will continue to get better.


** Trigger Warning** Please stop here if you are triggered by hospital and medical settings. Phoebe is doing amazingly well now but there are pictures and words that may be upsetting for some readers.


In utero she was diagnosed with a small Ventricular Septal Defect or VSD which is a hole between the lower chambers of the heart. It is in fact the most common CHD and can be a symptom of other CHDs. Her doctors expected it to close on it’s own, eventually, but we would keep an eye on it just in case. Little did I know that this seemingly harmless hole, that did end up closing by itself, quite possibly saved her life.

 

After going through all of the things I’ve been through with her birth and CHD I believe we are thriving now due to divine intervention. Luck wouldn’t have been enough. I have plans to post a birth story but I’m not quite ready yet.

 

A few weeks after she was born she was diagnosed with a CHD called Partial Anomalous Pulmonary Venous Return, or PAPVR for short. Two of her four right pulmonary veins were misplaced and were draining into the coronary sinus. This would end up causing a backup of fluid into her lungs causing Congestive Heart Failure. Ultimately she would need heart surgery to correct it. A lot of times PAPVRs go undetected because it is only partial. If undiagnosed the heart would end up adapting and change to compensate for the defect. Many are diagnosed later in life during a cardiac event. The only reason we found this was because of the VSD she had.

 

Her cardiologist wanted to wait until she was about a year old if we could before she had surgery. Bigger babies have a much lower risk of complications and are just easier to work on when the heart isn’t so little. In the meantime, we needed to keep a very close eye out for any signs of difficulty breathing or oxygenating (blue lips or extremities, labored breathing, sweating while feeding, low spO2.) We also needed to keep her healthy. Any respiratory illness could be detrimental to her. This in the middle of a respiratory disease pandemic, nonetheless. Luckily it was 2021 and we had already practiced isolation and masks and everything were still being used.

For almost a year, we waited. We worried.  We limited contact with everyone. I stopped my photography business. We went to countless cardiologist appointments and had countless echoes. 

 


 In the spring we got her scheduled for surgery with the Chief of Cardiothoracic Surgery at Cook’s in Fort Worth. Her case was a rather rare one so he was interested in her case. Up until this time she never seemed to have any symptoms, thank goodness.

On July 14th 2022, at 11 months old, she had open heart surgery. It was the full gambit: cracked chest, bypass, the whole nine. She was in the absolute best hands at Cook’s but it was still the longest most terrifying time of our lives. Her surgery lasted about 9 hours. Everything went amazing and the repair was final. As long as she doesn’t have any complications, then she will not need any additional surgeries.

She recovered very well. It was really unbelievable Throughout the whole surgery and pre-surgical process we were constantly encouraged by everyone on her team about how amazingly fast babies recover. We were hopeful but when you see your baby attached to all of the tubes and all of the wires, so helpless and sad, it’s hard to accept that she could go home any sooner than a week. But, she did! It was unbelievable. One of the most beneficial things we did to help her recovery was taking her out for wagon rides on the cardiac floor. It drastically boosted her spirits. After that first one, we were already getting our happy baby back and I was able to hold her for the first time. In less than 72 hours she was back to her old self, and we were having the most difficult time keeping her in her hospital crib. We were ready to leave. We packed up and made the three hour journey back home, VERY carefully.

Before Surgery

This is us waiting in the surgical waiting area. Poor girl had no idea what was about to happen.

In Pre-op Before Surgery

This is Phoebe in the Pre-op exam room. I didn't even think to bring any toys with us. Thankfully Cook Children's gets many toy donations for their patients. Consider donating if you ever have the opportunity!

In Pre-op Before Surgery

This is Phoebe again in the Pre-op exam room.

In the CICU just after surgery

She was hooked up to so many monitors. They prep you for what you will see but I can't imagine how scary this sight would be for a family that doesn't have any medical background.

In the CICU just after surgery

Having been a vet tech for many years it wasn't as much of a shock. I had seen some of these machines and treatments before and understood some of the processes. Albeit they were way more advanced here.

Holding My Baby's Hand in the CICU

We never left her side. We would alternate between the two of us.

Bluey Saves Lives!

Here she was watching Bluey in the CICU. Her favorite show. I don't think we would have made it out of there as soon as we did if it weren't for Bluey and the wagon rides.

Wagon Ride #1

Here she is going on her first wagon. She was being moved from the CICU into the step down room. In less than 24 hours, she was out of the CICU. Just incredible. This really boosted her spirits. She was pretty depressed in that other room.

Offering her first meal in her wagon

Up until this point she had only had pedialyte from a bottle. Since her spirits were up we tried a milk bottle.

Her Spacious Step Down Room

The CICU was more spacious than I anticipated but these step down room in the cardiac wing were huge! There was plenty of room and a spacious private bathroom with a shower.

Her First Toy

She loved being able to get some toys. She wasn't quite ready to play but she held on to it while she rested.

Resting with more Toys

At this point she was still wasn't moving a whole lot. Just resting mostly but she still loved her toys.

More Bluey in the Hospital

Bluey was the highlight of her time here. We would pray for it to come on Disney Jr.

Brother Sent Her a Bluey Ballon and Toy From the Gift Shop

My mom and Noah called in a get well gift for Phoebe. She loved it!

Wagon Ride #2

She made sure to take the toy her big brother gave her.

First moments sitting up on her own

After she got the balloon from her brother she was ready to play. She discovered she could sit up.

Another Wagon Ride In Her Disney Princess Vest

The wagon rides were great for Phoebe, and they were great for us. This vest was pretty special. They were hand sewn by donors and were specifically made to hold the travel monitoring machines. We were lucky enough to borrow one there weren't very many.

Cuddled Up with Dad Ready to Leave

Early that morning I wasn't sure if she was ready to go even though she was cleared. We planned to stay another day but after breakfast a switch flipped she was pulling out all her wires and trying to crawl out of her hospital bed. She was ready.

So far, her recovery has been pretty much flawless except for one hiccup we had just two days before her two week follow up. That morning about 4am she spiked a fever. We called the after hours number and her cardiologist, who happened to be on call that night, told us to pack a bag and head to the emergency department when the sun came up. It wasn’t too much of a rush. Of course, we didn't wait. My dad came to stay with Noah. We packed up and were back at Cook’s before 8am. Within the hour, we had bloodwork taken, IV, EKG, X-rays and another echo. Phoebe was overwhelmed. The moment we stepped into the ED she lost it, understandably. She fought the entire way. She had been though some pretty traumatic stuff just a short time ago. It was heartbreaking. Her cardiologist informed us that she had developed pericardial effusion (fluid accumulation) at the bottom of her heart and it was touching her diaphragm causing her pain and weirdly the hiccups. I had noticed that a few days ago but didn’t think much about it. She was prescribed a scheduled Ibuprofen regimen and an echo to recheck and make sure the fluid was going down. She gave us the choice: be admitted to the hospital or stay close and just follow up at her previously scheduled time. We chose the latter. We didn’t want to put her or us through that again. We stayed with our good friends nearby and went to her follow up appointment. The fluid was already 75% gone. She responded very well to the ibuprofen and I could tell she was feeling much better!

 

It was smooth sailing from there on out.

 

She passed her 3 month and 6 month checkups with no complications and we were informed that the risk now for complications was very low. We will only need to have yearly check ups with the cardiologist and as she gets older they will probably extend that.

 

Things I have learned! When you don’t have the opportunity to see your child’s normal it is hard to know whether or not something is a symptom. I noticed some improvements after her surgery and recovery.  She is much louder! Her stamina has increased dramatically as well. I thought she was always a pretty chill baby, never too active. Boy, was I wrong! This girl is crazy. Nothing slows her down. She is spunky, full of attitude and fearless and I’m all for it! When you go through something like this it really makes you appreciate the things that would normally be annoying or frustrating.

Also, photos are so important. Even if they are on your phone, take pictures! Every milestone and moment is a gift. I am notorious about living in the moment and often forget to grab a camera or my phone. I know, I know, I'm a photographer how could I forget! It just happens, alot... You can always hire a professional, too. Even I have to hire a professional from time to time! I am back in business and I would love to photograph your moments for you! Hit me up anytime!


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Phoebe Standing in her Crib 4 Days After her Surgery.

In the car on our way to the emergency department.

Emergency Department Visit

She was very upset and only wanted Mom. It was a rough day for us.

First Birthday Bluey Party

She was very unimpressed with her first birthday party. We ended up having a very small party with only grandparents. This was only a few weeks post surgery so she was still under sternal precautions and everything.

Phoebe at the Doctor's Office in Abilene

Seeing her Pediatrician for a routine check up.

Running around at the playground

She has so much more energy now. Nothing stops her! She is constantly busy.

Bundled up for a snow day

Halloween 2022

Brother was the purple crayon and Pheebs was a kitty cat for Halloween.

Cutie Patootie

Phoebe just hanging out in her play yard.

Rocking Her Scar


Do you have/are a heart warrior? Comment and share your story or message me privately. I'm happy to lend an ear or help if you are going through something similar!

 

 

Best Wishes!

 

Mandy


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